ADOPTEE ISSUES

ADOPTEE ISSUES THAT I HAVE OVERCOME!!
FROM ONE ADOPTEE'S MIND TO YOURS (COMING OUT)

I AM GOING TO PUT MYSELF ON THE LINE AND SET THE EXAMPLE...BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER ASK NOR EXPECT ANYONE TO OPEN UP NOR BE HONEST, IF I DON'T DO IT.
I AM AN ADOPTEE AND IT IS A TOUCHY, AND SENSITIVE AREA BUT IT NEEDS TO BE SHARED AND DISCUSSED.

The goal is that it will help someone else who is also going experiencing this.

PLEASE RESPECT MINE AND ALL OTHER OF OUR FRIENDS RIGHTS, VIEWS AND BELIEFS EVEN IF THEY ARE DIFFERENT THAN YOURS.

THE GOAL IS TO SHARE VIEWS PERSPECTIVES ON ADOPTION WHILE GROWING AND APPRECIATING OTHER ADOPTEE'S VIEWS.

PART A - (CONSIST OF THE COMMON SENSE / EMOTIONAL FABRIC)


I am an adoptee and I have been holding in a lot of things that I need to vent. About what you might ask? About this messed-up governmental/Bureaucratic/Political system/THE ADOPTIVE SYSTEM!

I HAVE A VERY GOOD ARGUMENT I NEED TO DISCUSS, I FEEL THAT IT COULD SET A NEW PRECEDENT FOR ADOPTEES IN FLORIDA AND THE UNITED STATES. THIS WILL PROBABLY END UP BEING ONE OF THE BIGGEST CLASS ACTION LAW SUITS IN HISTORY.
So many people take things for granted...... let me just give you a little taste of what I and other adoptee goes thru everyday.... I am going to try to articulate this to you..

THIS IS HOW I USED TO FEEL MOST OF THE TIME....

WHEN YOU ARE AN ADOPTEE YOU WAKE UP EVERY MORNING WITH A BIG QUESTION MARK ON YOUR FOREHEAD. THE BIG QUESTION MARK (??) ON YOUR FOREHEAD YELLS AT YOU: " WHO AM I "? "WHERE DID I COME FROM? "

AND IF YOU DON'T KNOW THOSE TWO ANSWERS THEN YOU CONCLUSIVELY DON'T KNOW:

"WHERE AM I GOING" AND "HOW AM I GOING TO GET THERE? WHO WILL HELP ME GET THERE?

(NO FAMILY) >>>

ALL OF THE COLLEGES, AND UNIVERSITIES THAT STUDY HUMANITY, PSYCHOLOGY, AND HISTORY WOULD TELL YOU THAT THESE ARE THE BASIC QUESTIONS THAT MAN HISTORICALLY, PRESENTLY, AND IN THE FUTURE NEEDS TO KNOW TO SURVIVE. THEY ARE BASIC NECESSITIES OF THOUGHT AND CONSCIENCE.

And adoptee confronts and thinks even subconsciously EVERY SECOND, minute, hour, OF EACH AND EVERY DAY, AND ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU LOOK INTO THE MIRROR ABOUT THIS QUESTION ND THESE ISSUES.

ALL YOU SEE IS THE QUESTION MARK???? (YOU DON'T SEE THE PERSON,...BUT YOU ALWAYS SEE THE QUESTION MARK. AS STATED ABOVE FOR 39 YEARS I HAVE DEALT WITH THIS AND ALL OF THE RESULTING ISSUES THAT STEM FROM AND ARISE OUT OF THE ADOPTEE'S DELIMA.

*WHY , AND HOW DOES THIS OCCUR,YOU MAY ASK? ...BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO REFERENCE POINT TO KNOW THE PERSON, EVEN IF IT IS YOURSELF.

Written/typed by, lived by, felt by ManofGod335 and the millions of others that I speak for I my heart.

Man Of God335